{"id":938,"date":"2020-04-03T21:01:39","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T19:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.carolin-sommer.com\/?p=938"},"modified":"2025-09-23T12:27:03","modified_gmt":"2025-09-23T10:27:03","slug":"john-gottman-die-vermessung-der-liebe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carolin-sommer.com\/?p=938","title":{"rendered":"John Gottman &#8211; Die Vermessung der Liebe"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u00f6rt sich komisch an, is aber so. Er misst in seinem &#8222;Love Lab&#8220; die Liebe.\u00a0 Die Liebe die ein paar f\u00fcreinander \u00fcbrig hat. In seinem Buch stellt er seine Forschungsergebnisse vor. Er beobachtet seit Jahrzehnten Paare\/Ehepartner wie sie \u00fcber Themen diskutieren\/streiten. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Er kann mit ziemlicher Wahrscheinlichkeit sagen wer zusammenbleibt und wer nicht. Daraus hat er Faktoren abgeleitet die eine Ehe\/Partnerschaft am Leben erhalten. Ab und zu ist es, dem Thema verschuldet, etwas wissenschaftlich geschrieben. Aber sehr aufschlussreich und richtig interessant. Vor allem eben sehr lebensnah. Nicht wie von vielen anderen Psychologen einfach anhand von Testfrageb\u00f6gen, Statistiken und Auswertungen dahingetippt wo sich zum Schluss keiner mehr auskennt was eigentlich gemeint ist. Bei John Gottman versteht man am Ende des Buches sehr wohl was wichtig ist in einer Partnerschaft und was der Klebstoff f\u00fcr eine lange Bindung ist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\u00bbDer amerikanische Psychologe John Gottman ist quasi der Papst der Paartherapie &#8230;\u00ab<br><em>Focus, 11.8.2014<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-amazon-kindle wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-amazon\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Die Vermessung der Liebe: Vertrauen und Betrug in Paarbeziehungen\" type=\"text\/html\" width=\"960\" height=\"550\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen style=\"max-width:100%\" src=\"https:\/\/lesen.amazon.de\/kp\/card?preview=inline&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;ref_=k4w_oembed_aw7k1NBTRlk3eK&#038;asin=B00IUODB3G&#038;tag=vitaundich-21\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption>John Gottman &#8211; Die Vermessung der Liebe<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>H\u00f6rt sich komisch an, is aber so. 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